hello,
I'm Kimberly—Los Angeles–based intimacy coach, sex + relationship guide, and BDSM facilitator. I help people come home to themselves through embodied and radically honest intimacy work.
My mission? To help you lean into your erotic deliciousness, own your desires without shame, and feel deeply turned on by your whole self—inside and out.
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But I didn’t always live this way.​​​​​..
raised on shame.
rewired for pleasure.
(aka: I've probably been where you are.)
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I’ve been the one who performed confidence but felt frozen inside. The one who confused attention for intimacy. The one who kept things “cool” so I didn’t scare anyone away. And I’ve been the one who said: enough. Enough hiding. Enough shrinking. Enough pretending I didn’t want to be deeply seen.
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I was raised in a traditional Middle Eastern household where reputation ruled and silence spoke louder than truth. Autonomy was frowned upon, and sexuality? Practically a dirty word. I grew up internalizing shame, shrinking my voice, and contorting myself to please others. Boundaries? Nonexistent. Confidence? Theoretical. Pleasure? Unfamiliar. I felt disconnected from my body, unsure of my worth, and about as sexy as a potato.
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Then came the rupture—a called-off engagement that cracked everything open. What looked like heartbreak became initiation. I stopped performing and started listening—to my body, to my truth, to the deeper hungers within me. I gave myself permission to explore my sensuality and reclaim what was always mine: my voice, my pleasure, my power.
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Through deep personal work, somatic training, and time as a professional switch in a commercial dungeon, I learned how to live unapologetically—and how to hold space for others to do the same. I discovered the beauty of being witnessed, the healing that happens in safe, shame-free spaces, and the strength that comes from being fully seen. This work changed everything. And now, I get to guide others through their own transformations.
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​Throughout my career, I've been part of the SAR panel (Sexual Attitude Reassessment) for the Sexual Health Alliance, shared my thoughts on the "Is Our Love ___?" podcast, and contributed to "Pass the Porn: A Cinematic Social Experiment," among others. Most recently, I was featured in season three of the EPIX late-night show "Sex Life."
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If you’re longing to feel more alive in your body, to rewrite the rules around love, sex, and intimacy, or to reconnect with the wild, worthy parts of you that got buried under guilt and expectation—I’m here.
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Let’s meet you where you are. And then, let’s go deeper.
the alchemy of intimacy
Forget the clinical talk. This is intimacy work you can actually feel. I don’t diagnose dysfunction. I meet you where you are—in your body, in your longing, in your beautifully human mess.
Through experiential, embodied coaching, I help you reconnect to your sensuality, power, and truth. We build a relationship of trust—one that allows you to explore your erotic energy, emotional body, and desires without shame or pressure. Intimacy, eroticism, boundaries, turn-on—these aren’t just concepts, they’re skills. And they can be learned and practiced. I walk this path too—and I know how transformative it can be when someone holds space for your becoming.
My BDSM Practice
In the realm of kink, I wear many hats—and sometimes a collar.
As a professional and lifestyle switch, I fluidly move between dominance and submission, depending on the energy, the moment, and the dynamic we're co-creating. I believe BDSM is one of the most potent and creative playgrounds for self-exploration, healing, and erotic liberation. This work isn’t just about kink—it’s about feeling fully alive in your body, owning your edges, and discovering how power and vulnerability can dance.
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Whether you’re dipping your toes into kink for the first time or exploring long-held fantasies, I offer a space where your desires can be expressed without shame and explored with consent and intention.
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Some of my favorite scenes involve:
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Impact play + traditional OTK spankings
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Bondage + restraint
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Sensory play + deprivation
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Role-play + light humiliation
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CBT + other forms of intense, consensual sensation​​
your first move
Thinking about working with me? Take a peek at my services, then fill out the Client Intake Form. Once you've hit "submit," we'll book your free discovery call and see where this can go.​ Skip the form, skip the call...and that would just be tragic.​